That's what I've been saying for months . I say it nicely nobody gets it you say it and it's like it was written in the Bible .. Good post my friend somebody has to get this point acrossPpl will always want validation. They'll always want an opinion and secretly think maybe they'll get lucky and sum1 will validate them. Give it a year then tell me how many of these threads you've seen. Then after 4 years how many. They aint gonna slow down. Just like the same ppl get told a million times they aint got apbt then still call them "pits"or argue the media stand point teying to probe they have 1. A simple "muuts" or "no ped = mutt" or a link to the stickies are way more productive than running something in the ground....
Ive seen damn near everyone on this board ask a question I think is stupid. Just like ive asked questions that leave ppl wondering how i am smart enough to dress myself. Think about if everyone ran every comment that ppl made that annoyed them in to the ground. Thats all anyone would do. Theres no education going on in complaining. I see too many "experts" who dnt know wth theyre talking about or reading and repeating but I dnt go around running them in the ground and trying to make them feel dumb and embareassed. Its plain to see who reads and repeats and who has years and experience under their belt so I dnt comment.
Just try to think how youd feel if sum1 started running your posts into the ground cuz it annoyed them or they thought it was dumb...
Shoot who u think made me start seeing all this stuff and changing my mind about itThat's what I've been saying for months . I say it nicely nobody gets it you say it and it's like it was written in the Bible .. Good post my friend somebody has to get this point across
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True, true. However, when a new member comes into a forum they don't know the feel of the forum and it really isn't that difficult to set the tone while still being cordial about it. Often it is not what we say but how we say it that makes the difference. Not only in forums but also in life.I gave my opinion and tried to keep it nice has i could!
But i saw it written somewhere and for the life of me i cant remember! But it goes like this!
''if you want it sugar coated,by a candy bar!''
I see more indoctrination than actual education here, there is a difference.....If sticking up for the new ppl that the ppl that been around bash on is being thin skinned there's a thin line between the 2 .. If we as a forum want to educate why do we bully the students? I like sitting back and reading the old post from like 09 when the only BS was in VIP where it belong .. If somebody asked a question nobody got on there high horse and bashed the newbs .. Look at how many post in the general discussion went south from ppl bashing and how many times the OPs came back to learn More ? Very little . .. This forum went from being a community to being a high school lunch table full of rich kids
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