My thoughts exactly. That's why I choose carefully who I tell about this site.
It's a good site,and I think people can really benefit from coming here,but I think that they need to learn how to act when new owners of the breed come in not knowing anything.
That's how I was. I adopted Bruno and wanted to know everything about him and this breed right away,so I joined here,got my ass chewed out for a good couple of months,was told I should not own this breed and that I was going to fail.
I flat out told them I would prove them wrong,and I'm happy to say I have.(I think so anyway). Bruno got his CGC, I no longer attend dog parks,I know to keep Bruno away from other dogs,etc. If I had never come here...Well. I'd hate to think where Bruno would be now.

Yeah,they can be pretty harsh here. I had it really bad when I first joined. But I learned quick that what I was doing was endangering not only my breed of choice,but myself and others.
I dunno though,sometimes they can be to harsh.
and WTF is up with this Lexi's fart person...seriously. I have a feeling I know who it is though...Just waiting it out.

No worries. I agree with a lot of what you said. I usually do.