Sorry that it took so long for someone on our site to respond to you. I'd like to take the time to welcome you abord and assure you that your little girl is experiencing something completely normal. Bitches heat cycles are a funky thing... Clots are normal, and so is the bladder control issues. Every single one of my bitches have had bladder control issues with their first heat cycle. Only two of them had issues on the second round with their cycles. It's not something that many people run into an issue with, but it is ok and she will be back to normal soon enough. Just remember when shes finished bleeding, she will still be "in heat" for 2 weeks afterwards and THAT is when she will be succeptible to male visitors so keep an eye out!