You boys all like to front. I'm sure Bulldoggin' secretly prances his dogs out in their stylish outfits with designer duds on a regular basis and insists in private that they have conversations with him; he talks tough. And Joe we know your dogs have their very own poolside loungers....LOL just kidding boys
Mac makes a good point, that I think Joe touched on. Though I don't know if it's always a defense mechanism, I do think that many people (me included at times) use their dogs to fill a need within them - some more than others. I know Ciara's fur has held more than it's fair share of my tears and I tend to talk to all of the dogs like they are people sometimes. I think we are all guilty of it at least once in a while in some way, shape or form. The problem occurs when people do it, don't even understand that they're doing it or what they're doing, or expect something from their dogs that they are not capable of because they are not humans. The four of us in this conversation so far know that however we may treat or talk to or say about our dogs, they are still just dogs and know what to expect from them and how to treat them appropriately. The people that piss me off are the ones who think their dog should be behaving like a human or showing human emotions, actions, behaviors. Dogs don't have "guilt" (I found an interesting peer reviewed study in the journals confirming that dogs are more likely responding the to communication of its owner, both verbally and nonverbally, not showing or feeling "guilty") and dogs don't need canine "friends". And to anthropomorphize bulldogs is asking for problems and is dangerous. THAT is the real issue here - not anthropomorphism in general, but the extent that which people tend to anthromorphize their "pibbles" resulting in all the dangerous dog and BSL nonsense that the rest of us are forced to deal with for treating our dogs as what they are - dogs not people.